Helping Single Women of Color Take Life Off Hold

Join a community where your single life becomes a season of freedom, connection, and joy — not something to fix

The community for Single Black & Brown Women to stop the waiting — and build a life that’s fully theirs.

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The community for Single Black & Brown Women to stop the waiting — and build a life that’s fully theirs. ~

Does Being Single Have to Feel This Isolating?

You’ve done everything “right.” You’ve built a career, made smart choices, and worked on yourself.

But why does singlehood still feel like a waiting room—like your life is now on hold?

Your life is not on hold just because you’re single — that’s what they’ve taught you, not what you have to believe.

Your weekends are a mix of:

  • Endless scrolling

  • Exhausting, surface-level dates with people intimidated by your success

  • Replaying red flags from a situationship you know should’ve ended sooner

  • Wondering why dating feels more like a second job than something enjoyable

You crave deep conversations and a sense of belonging. Meanwhile, your friends are hitting major life milestones, and no matter how happy you are for them, there’s a quiet, sinking feeling that you’re falling behind.

And the loneliness? It’s not just about being alone—it’s about feeling unseen.

Your family doesn’t get it. They keep asking when you’re going to “find someone,” like your happiness depends on it.

It all adds up to those moments that have you questioning:


Should I shrink myself just to feel chosen?

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But you were never the problem

Imagine waking up feeling at peace—not second-guessing your choices, not carrying guilt for who you’ve loved or what didn’t work out. Not questioning if you need to be ‘less’ or ‘more’ to be loved.”

Your singlehood isn’t a burden, a flaw, or something to fix—it’s a season of expansion, joy, and possibility.

Picture yourself…

Fully seen and celebrated, surrounded by women who uplift and challenge you
Dancing under the stars on a retreat
Laughing over dinner with like-minded friends
Investing in yourself—not just waiting for someone else to do it

You’re no longer shrinking, settling, or wondering if you’re doing life ‘wrong.’ You’re saying yes to yourself — and living From Loneliness to Liberation.

As you step into the fullness of your own life, you naturally start meeting people who align with your values and purpose—because you’re living them.

The more you say yes to yourself, the more you attract the kind of relationships that feel easy, reciprocal, and deeply nourishing.

And the best part?

You have a roadmap for navigating this chapter with confidence and clarity.

Welcome to Her Soul Supply.

A Coaching Collective for Single Women of Color to guide Black & Brown women toward personal growth and the freedom to live their purpose-driven lives — no more guilt, no more waiting, no more life on hold. Her Soul Supply uses the creative power of education, travel, and sisterhood to guide Black and Brown women toward personal growth and the freedom to live their purpose-driven lives.

Whether you want to dip your toe in with a live workshop, go deeper in coaching, or restore your spirit through travel — Her Soul Supply gives you the tools, sisterhood, and plan to stop putting your dreams on hold.

This is more than self-care—it’s self-liberation

OUR SERVICES

Single, Empowered, & Free

A 90-minute live workshop designed for women of color to break free from the cultural standards that keep them feeling “stuck”

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1: 1 Coaching Intensive

A 2-hour virtual intensive, you’ll get clear on where you are, what’s been holding you back, and how to help you reclaim your power as a single woman

A 12 week group coaching experience for single women of color to de-center romance from their happiness, build healthier connections, while building community

Settle for More

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Restore Her: Retreats

Women-led, local and international travel experiences that help women of color experience freedom and restore themselves through culture and sisterhood.

  • "I had an enlightening experience in Mexico and with the women I met. We were all on the same journey of healing the past and self discovery. Fanny chose activities that facilitated this healing. I would highly recommend a retreat with Fanny, you will be forever changed."

MEET FANNY

Fanny Tristan is the founder of Her Soul Supply and a licensed clinical social worker with over 15 years of experience supporting women of color through life’s transitions. Her deep understanding of the unique challenges faced by Black and Brown women fuels her commitment to empowering them to thrive—on their own terms.

She believes in the transformative power of sisterhood, self-exploration, and intentional living to help women step into their fullest, most empowered selves.

She built Her Soul Supply because she knew therapy alone wasn’t enough — real freedom comes when you stop waiting for permission to live fully.

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